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Ciao - for now
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| Heffa |
Posted on 15-06-2009 20:05
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Guys - i've had a wonderful time in TBO.
Sadly in the past few days that has been marred by some nasty personal insults. In addition, I don't want anyone feeling that they're carrying me through raids every week.
As such, I've decided now is the time for me to move on from TBO. You guys are great and I wish you well.
Friendlists are magic - and lots of you are on mine.
Cheers Zapporah (ex-Heffa) x
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| adamrazza |
Posted on 15-06-2009 20:08
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 Im sad to see u leave. Hope everything goes ok for u  x
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| Tom |
Posted on 15-06-2009 20:12
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sad to see you leave but best of wishes in whatever/whoever you choose next, you will be missed . /wave |
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| Ladicia |
Posted on 15-06-2009 20:19
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im gonna miss ya heffa but wel lyou always know where to find me if you should be needing a dps for anything good luck hun |
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| Valeria |
Posted on 15-06-2009 20:50
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Wish you the best Heffa honey, just keep in mind that you cannot be friends with everyone in a guild, that is impossible.
If the majority of the people in the Guild likes you, and in TBO it was the majority indeed, then I find it silly to leave cause you can't get along with a handful of people.
You could have just ignored them instead of leaving the guild...
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| mato |
Posted on 15-06-2009 21:31
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totaly agree whit val ther .
il try and rember to give you a /w from time to time  |
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| Maleficus |
Posted on 15-06-2009 22:14
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I hope you find what you seek in Solo.
"Whatever you do will be insignificant, but it is very important that you do it."
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| Alchy |
Posted on 16-06-2009 00:48
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Sorry to see you go Heffa, and likewise, hope you have some happy times in Solo. And /agreee with val, you cant always get on with everyone you meet, sometimes youre gonna have bad experiences with others, specially during a disagreement.
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| Breador |
Posted on 16-06-2009 05:59
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good luck in Solo
/wave |
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| Gangsta |
Posted on 16-06-2009 06:13
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Best of luck in Solo, catch ya later Michelle.
Edit: since you kept all your alts here, ill see ya ingame aswell.
Edited by Gangsta on 17-06-2009 09:11
Hit them little niggas with a freeze-pop, represent
Another Famous quote by Org when he's healing - "Its not my fault the tank dies. its his own fault. He got hit to much" |
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| Ralpbix |
Posted on 16-06-2009 08:44
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Quote Valeria wrote:
Wish you the best Heffa honey, just keep in mind that you cannot be friends with everyone in a guild, that is impossible.
If the majority of the people in the Guild likes you, and in TBO it was the majority indeed, then I find it silly to leave cause you can't get along with a handful of people.
You could have just ignored them instead of leaving the guild...
It really does not matter how many people likes you. If some of the guildmembers are really do their best to make your gaming time within the guild a pain in the ass there is nothing else to leave and find the fun somewhere else.
At least that is what happened to me the last time I left TBO... |
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| Valeria |
Posted on 16-06-2009 08:55
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Quote Ralpbix wrote:
It really does not matter how many people likes you. If some of the guildmembers are really do their best to make your gaming time within the guild a pain in the ass there is nothing else to leave and find the fun somewhere else.
At least that is what happened to me the last time I left TBO...
I doubt that some people wanted to make Heffa's time a pain in the ass on purpose, mate. There was a disagreement and Mike said a couple things he shouldn't perhaps have said. By saying that he was trying to turn Heffa's playtime into a Nightmare is a bit stretching.
Edited by Valeria on 16-06-2009 08:58
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| georgi |
Posted on 16-06-2009 11:16
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Good luck to your new guild Heffa.
I am sad you left.i don't agree with that Ralp said and hey yes to argue with someone is Life that means we are alive and not robots.
Everyone is free to say his opinion and the others will judge if they like it or not. But Hell yes that's the spirit of democracy .
I really dont agree with the way you choose to leave the guild heffa you have too many friends here and one of those is me a swell..
But again i wish you the best
George
Edited by georgi on 16-06-2009 11:17
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| Heddy |
Posted on 16-06-2009 12:17
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sorry to see you go Heffa, keep in touch!
Hope you find what your after with Solo
Cameron
Hed's dead baby, Hed's dead.
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| surefire |
Posted on 17-06-2009 08:58
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Have no clue what happened but I have to admit I am sorry to see you go too especially as it appears to be after an argument with one person. Life and wow are similar in that no matter where you go or what you do not everyone will be to your liking. Have to say I think you will realise quite soon you have made a mistake have seen the way people react to you in this guild and you to them and I think you probably got as near here to a family as you ever will. And I am also sure if the personal attacks were continuing then the gm and officers would have stopped it. But good luck wherever you are. |
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| Darkwon |
Posted on 21-06-2009 12:46
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But you have applied to solo many times, and you did a similar thing in SB too. Just my 2 cents, but are you using the arguement as a excuse for leaving? Tbh i think you were lucky to be in TBO in the first place, i would seriously reconsider if i were you. |
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| Heffa |
Posted on 21-06-2009 16:54
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Darky
I didn't ask for your 2 cents.
I like more or less everyone in TBO with a couple of exceptions. I realise it's impossible to get on with everyone all of the time. But there are some people in TBO (and SB for that matter) who are very nice to you up front, but when it comes down to the nitty gritty, their true feelings come out, and believe me, it isn't a pretty sight.
That's why I chose to remove my main.
And yes, you are correct, i applied for solo twice and was declined twice. I didn't apply a third time, there was no need.
You said that i should reconsider - reconsider what exactly?
I'm not entirely sure things will work out at solo, but I honestly cannot continue to be comfortable raiding with TBO because of a few members attitudes. And for that reason, and that alone, I chose to remove my main from TBO. Which means i continue to play my alts here, with friends, the ones on the friend list, the ones who are happy to go for a jaunt and a laugh and a wipe fest through hcs when we're learning new roles.
But I will end by saying that I will never again raid with TBO - even on an alt gear up run because, god forbid... i don't want anyone carrying me through any raid.
Edited by Heffa on 21-06-2009 16:55
Cheers Zapporah (ex-Heffa) x
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| Gangsta |
Posted on 21-06-2009 21:57
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Quote I'm not entirely sure things will work out at solo, but I honestly cannot continue to be comfortable raiding with TBO because of a few members attitudes. And for that reason, and that alone, I chose to remove my main from TBO. Which means i continue to play my alts here, with friends, the ones on the friend list, the ones who are happy to go for a jaunt and a laugh and a wipe fest through hcs when we're learning new roles.
And leaving only with your main, for what? spite? if you leave a guild, you leave a guild imo.
But, i personally dont have a problem with you keeping your alts here im all for it, no one asked you to leave in the first place, but you made sure you made a big deal about...and only leave on your main You love the limelight dontcha?
The only thing we can ask is that you keep being positive, and have fun. and ofc play with your friends. You can be a social member, since we have that now as a rank.
Maybe one day you will be able to accept the fact that ppl dont agree with you on some issues, and that you have to let some things slide. You and I had an argument, i tried to reach out to you, but you werent intressted. Bacily if you are not intressted in solving a problem, then you are the problem. You would rather leave, make a big deal about it, and then keep every alt you have in the guild.
It comes a time when everyone has to look in the mirror, me included. When i asked SB about you, when you applyied here the only phrase i got from sb when I (yes i) did my best to get you into TBO, was that you are "High Maintenance". That you just cant keep that woman happy, no matter what. And now, i understand that to 100 % (and just between you and me, demanding an appoligy dosent work on me)
And out of curiosity, who was it that gave you that open spot to Solo? since it seems to be flying around those nowadays to tbo members, so ofc its of big intresst for us officers.
Anyways, Good Luck in solo...and ill cya online on your alts.
P.S Quote But I will end by saying that I will never again raid with TBO - even on an alt gear up run because, god forbid... i don't want anyone carrying me through any raid.
Oh boy you love the drama
Then what exactly is it that you bring to THIS guild? what exactly will YOU contribute with? What use to THIS guild are YOU? How should TBO use YOU?
instead of you only thinking about me, myself and I, what do you bring to the table, for the guild TBO?
Hit them little niggas with a freeze-pop, represent
Another Famous quote by Org when he's healing - "Its not my fault the tank dies. its his own fault. He got hit to much"
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| Heffa |
Posted on 21-06-2009 22:39
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Oh Mike Mike Mike
Leaving on my main - no mike, not spite, but because i want to progress my character. You and themale made it very clear that you did not want to carry my ass through any raids, and besides i don't want to be carried. So I moved elsewhere to raid. Thats all.
Are you trying to make me angry with that post so that i'll take a strop and leave on my alts. i like most of the folk in tbo and if you think that you can bully me into taking my social chars from social spot - you're wrong. I didn't make a big deal about leaving, i just politely put up a goodbye post, as most people do when they move on. You've hijacked that and turned it into something else.
What happened at SB has no bearing on TBO. And as for being high maintenance - well that's a matter of opinion isn't it. I bend over backwards to help people, whether it be grinding herbs, fishing, running the same normal instance 4 times a day to get a trinket to drop for someone. Do i ask for thanks? no, do i get it? mostly, am i happy to do these things for the benefit of other people? yes i am. if that makes me high maintenance that's your opinion.
I have no idea what you mean about an "open spot" in solo. it's news to me. I have had open dialogue with some people in solo for a long time, as friends, but think you're clutching at straws with that one.
Stop being bitter and twisted mike, it's not a pretty sight. especially not for an officer who is supposedly the public face of a guild.
Cheers Zapporah (ex-Heffa) x
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| Darkwon |
Posted on 21-06-2009 23:18
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Firstly, I couldn't give a rats ass whether you want my two cents or not Heffa.
All i ever see from you is someone who constantly needs help on one of your many alts, lower than the tanks dps in raids, and stories about your kids. Apart from the odd Irn Bru advert on the forum, i can honestly say I was glad when you left SB, and if i am honest pretty gutted to see the same bull**** when i logged into TBO, which for me is a nice little sanctuary amongst some old chums.
I have tried to be civil to you as i thought you had found a place here that might suit you especially as they didnt boot you when they discovered you had applied to Solo so often, and your general dps issues.
On that same note, if someone has to point out to you that you are doing less damage than a tank, then i think they problems go even further, and I doubt Solo will be overly happy about either.
Lastly, on the subject of your kids...i know you have had problems with them, and i really feel for you, as i did when you were in Soulbound, but what really pisses me off is that many people care about you and their well being, yet you repay their kindness with this sort of bull**** and throwing the concern people have in their faces, and for what??? because someone tells you that you need to start pulling your weight in raids ffs.
Act your age and not your shoe size. |
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